An observation for you. People are using the phrase, "Oh, I've just been so busy..." way too often lately and it's got to stop because both parties engaged in the conversation know it's bullsh**. Dig this: you're going to have a BBQ. Weeks ago you invited the Smiths, the cool fun couple but now it's the day before the bash and you've still not heard from them. You blast out a "what's up?" text. They respond: "Sorry we haven't responded we've just been so busy. Anyway we're booked with Gladys Kravitz that night. Sorry." And of course the text will be topped off with some sickening smiley face emoji. The truth of the matter is the Smiths weren't too busy to get back to you they were Too busy my ass! actually looking for something better to do...and found it. My advice would be to purge them from your invite list or at least drop them to the bottom rung of your future invite ladder. Another abusive