I'm in a tangled relationship with cancer. But you knew that. If you didn't know, now you know. That's not what I'm here to talk about..not entirely. I'd taken my home chemo pack and just read thirty pages of a Brad Parks novel. I turned off my reading light and a delayed flash of light lingered where full illumination once was. Happens right? No biggie. That was, until the light flash took on the vibrant colors and shapes of a moving kaleidoscope. Hmm, that's odd. Oh, wait this was like when you rubbed your eyes too hard as a kid, it'll pass in a second...any second now. I lay and thought 'what is chemo doing now bro?' As if to answer my question I could pick out shapes, human shapes. My mind catapulted back in time to a wild mushroom trip I once enjoyed. But this was better than that. These people were African, and mostly women. My god my ancestors are here! I wanted to roar. I leaned across to my wife to wake her, she's got to see this. No!..
I wear a couple of hats. One of which is Personal Fitness Trainer. I've got a client whose given me permission to tell a short version of part of his story. Let's call him Dave, shall we? Dave found me on Facebook. He saw one of my demo videos and said, "this guy seems legit, so why not give him a try?" I'm so glad Dave reached out to me. I've come really dig our time together and I have a ton of respect and admiration for him. Dave was 535 lbs. when we began zooming, lifting, stretching, and more, together. I dug into Dave's backstory a little. It always helps for a trainer to have a little intel, but more than that I'm a people person. People's stories, trials, tribulations and journeys fire me up. Dave has been a big lad a long time. At one time he had a different trainer and went from 500 plus pounds down to 400 lbs. "But I lost the weight for the wrong reasons and later put the weight back on," he said. "Wrong reasons? Partner?&